Scared Of Water and Swimming
I am 64 and have always been scared of water and swimming. I have taken 15 lessons but nothing. I have not learned anything becuase fear controls me. I canot relax. I float and give up. I AM SO DESPERATE TO LEARN TO SWIM. WHAT DO I DO AM I USELESS?
Thanks for contacting me and asking for some advice. It sounds like you are determined to learn how to swim but your fear is holding you back.
Fifteen lessons is not many for an adult with a fear of water. It can take considerably more than that to overcome your fear and learn to relax in the water. Children make learning to swim look as easy as learning to ride a bike, but for an adult unfortunately it is not like that and it can take up to a year to become happy and confident in the water.
That does not mean it can’t be done! Everyone can learn to swim and everyone learns at different speeds. It’s very much an individual thing.
For now, forget the mechanics of what your arms and legs have to do in terms of swimming technique and concentrate on learning to relax and understanding how your body behaves in the water. Focus on these three main areas:
1. Holding your breath and submerging. Take a deep breath and slowly submerge, holding the poolside at first if necessary and then trying it without holding on. Do this near the poolside so that you can hold it to help you stand up. Try breathing out into the water whilst you are submerged, resurface, inhale and then submerge again. This
is a great exercise to help you to relax and breath.
2. Floating and then regaining a standing position. Floating face down, once you have gotten used to holding your breath and submerging, and then pulling down with your arms and forward with your knees will allow you to lift your face and place your feet on the pool floor again. A slow controlled movement is best. This will give you the confidence in your ability to float and also stand up mid swim.
3. Push and glide from the poolside. Pushing away from the poolside and floating or gliding along, without kicking your legs or pulling with your arms is a great way to understand how your body behaves in the water. Pushing away with arms extended out in front of you is best and you will discover that wobbly unbalanced feeling as you glide across the surface. Over time you will become more relaxed and therefore more balanced, and hopefully begin to enjoy the feeling of gliding.
If you practice the above three exercises regularly, as much as possible, they will hopefully start to become second nature and you will have conquered your fear of water and swimming. From there it is a simple matter of what your arms and legs have to do.
As long as you accept that it will take time, your patience and determination will see you through.
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